Can someone love you and still betray you? Yes. But not because love wasn’t real. Because their capacity to tolerate their own pain wasn’t big enough. Here’s what most people don’t understand about infidelity: It’s rarely about a lack of love. It’s about a lack of capacity. When someone’s nervous system is flooded by shame they can’t face, loneliness they don’t know how to name, emptiness they’ve been running from for years, they reach for the thing that gives them temporary relief. Validation.
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Can someone love you and still betray you? Yes. But not because love wasn’t real. Because their capacity to tolerate their own pain wasn’t big enough. Here’s what most people don’t understand about infidelity: It’s rarely about a lack of love. It’s about a lack of capacity. When someone’s nervous system is flooded by shame they can’t face, loneliness they don’t know how to name, emptiness they’ve been running from for years, they reach for the thing that gives them temporary relief. Validation.
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